Being in love is supposed to feel good. However, it doesn’t always. Some people make the mistake of thinking that love must hurt to be genuine. Others make the opposite mistake that love must always feel good to be true love.
True love is not only about how you feel or about what each person does to and for the other. Love is about attitudes, actions, and results. One of Sigmund Freud’s earliest disciples in psychiatry said that loving someone is regarding that person as equally important to you as yourself.
Sometimes, however, loving another person takes so much energy that there’s nothing left; and the person doing the loving is left with nothing for him, herself, or anyone else they care for. If every discussion becomes an argument or every day is a struggle that takes energy away from the people in love, eventually, they may choose to let it go and walk away.
So, you wonder, “Why is love so difficult?”
We live in a tough world. Every aspect of our lives demands from us. We must daily face a world with its serious demands and act as if our personal lives are perfectly okay and need for nothing.
Many try to live by old rules of honor and company loyalty. The belief is that if you lose your family, at least you still have your job. However, the boss, on any day, can hand you your walking papers no matter how loyally you service because the company’s loyalty is to its stockholders, who trade shares like kids trade animae cards, not to its employees. So who is loyal to you, work or family?
If you feel that work, your family, or both are a relentless struggle, you may be expressing your need through some form of anger. Don’t settle for a band aide. Coping skills are a defensive reaction. Management may control the problem but doesn’t fix it. Resolving fixes the problem so there is no need for coping skills and there is nothing to manage so you can live with vigor and passion.
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